Releasing the Stress in Christmas

Christmas changes so much from childhood into adulthood. In our younger years, it’s all about the excitement of gifts under the tree. Now, many of us are the providers of said gifts and making that magic happen for little ones. As kids, we don’t always realize the stress and anxiety that often leads up to these much-anticipated Christmas mornings.

It’s become the norm to rush to malls, department stores, and online sites to prepare for the winter season. We’ve built a connection between Christmas and increased spending, sometimes even compromising bill due dates or considering extensions just to maintain those smiles and cheerful hearts on Christmas morning.

But what if I told you that gifts aren’t just Barbie dolls, Xboxes, or the newest smartphone? You don’t have to break the bank to do Christmas “right”. Here are some alternatives to the usual holiday practices that I’d love to share with you.

1. DIY / Crafts

Oftentimes, if you give a very small child the option between a pricey toy and a remote, they’ll choose the remote—literally. Scroll through TikTok or Instagram if you don’t believe me. It’s the simple joys that matter most to them. You can certainly buy a toy remote if you’d like, but some DIY or craft ideas can be just as fun and are adaptable to your child’s age.

• Cardboard TVs:You can transform a cardboard box into a pretend TV, where your little one can tap into their imagination to create their own “show” for the family or reenact some of their favorites. 

• DIY Movie Theater:Following the TV theme, you can create a home theater experience with a DIY popcorn stand. A table, some paper for a sign, and popcorn bags or boxes (often under $10) are all you need. Your little one can act as concession staff, handing out popcorn and ushering family members to their seats. Then, settle in together to watch a movie, which can be fun for all ages!

2. Favorite Food or Treat

Have you ever found yourself explaining to your kids that they can’t have cake for breakfast? For Christmas, why not make it a special treat just for the holiday season? Instead of piling up purchased gifts, give the gift of “yes.” Maybe it’s an ice cream sundae for breakfast, or macaroni and cheese instead of the usual morning meal. Little things like this create big memories.

3. Group Gifts

Something I’ve adopted over the years is purchasing group gifts for little ones. Instead of multiple dolls or superhero figures, consider items that encourage kids to play together:

• Science experiment kits

• Indoor tents or life-size playhouses

• Kitchen sets

• Classic group games like Twister

Group gifts foster connection and togetherness, allowing families to pour love and time into one another rather than focusing solely on material things.

4. Gifting Experiences

You can also give the gift of experiences, like trips or special outings. Traveling can be pricey, so if that’s your plan, look for discounts. Check with your employer for travel benefits, and explore platforms like Groupon, Honey, Rakuten, or even AARP (membership starts at 18+). Banks often offer discounts and travel perks as well.

For those in Baltimore or D.C., here are some fun winter ideas:

• Miracle on 34th Street

• German Christmas Village

• Holly-Days at the Maryland Zoo

• Winter Lights at the Observatory

• Season’s Greenings at the U.S. Botanic Garden

• Step Afrika!’s Holiday Step Show

• ZooLights at the National Zoo

• Winterfest at Nationals Park

These experiences are often more memorable than toys and provide quality time spent together, memories children truly value.

Closing

I hope that these ideas help ease some of the stress of the holiday season, allowing you to focus on what truly matters, such as love, connection, family, and the deeper meaning of Christmas. After all, these are the moments that make the holidays truly memorable.

Happy Holidays!